Coming Out As Queer

Kids might start to feel "different" throughout childhood, but they don't know what these feelings mean. Kids might be gay, lesbian, bi, trans or queer - but are not sure. How do kids figure out what to do with these feelings and even what they are? "Coming out" is a gradual process to understand, accept and share one's gender and sexual identity. This is scary and confusing. Overwhelming emotions bring dark clouds over this journey creating serious mental health risks caused from feelings of isolation, fear, anxiety and depression. Societal discrimination, stigma and harassment further complicate this, forcing children to suppress their feelings to fit in or avoid angering parents & family. Today, in some places in the world, we are more accepting and young people are coming out at earlier ages than they did in the past. As such, parents have an important role to support their children through the process of coming out. Mercedes Killeen is an award-winning author, editor, and social media marketer based out of Toronto. Since coming out in her early twenties, Mercedes’ writing has been specifically informed by her queer identity and how that intersects with "taboo" topics like mental illness. Her work has been published widely in periodicals such as Shameless Magazine, The Innis Review, Half a Grapefruit Magazine, and The UC Review. As a poet, she revised her first book, tulips, in 2018, and after that published her second collection of poetry, Using a spoon as a knife. She has been invited by Toronto Poet Laureate, A.F. Moritz. to tell her story in several guest lectures at the University of Toronto. In this episode, we learn from Mercedes’ about her struggles with coming out and mental illness, with a view to informing parents on how they can support their children to a healthier and happier LGBTQ life. Visit https://wishslate.com/podcasts for Episode Transcript & Links to Resources