Confession: I Cheated On My Husband After We Broke Up Over Our Children’s US School Plans

There was a little argument with my husband when he refused to let my children go to the US to stay with their aunt for school. The disagreement led to a breakup, and during that period I ended up cheating on him. Later, he came back to apologize, and during a conversation, I confessed what I had done. Now he is insisting we put things on hold while he thinks about everything. I feel conflicted about telling him the truth—was it wrong that I confessed to him?