Confidence & Courage

In this episode, Michelle and Nicola are riding high after two back-to-back events — and they're reflecting honestly on what it really took to get there.What we talk about:Michelle hosted a sustainable fashion clothes swap — an event she nearly cancelled when ticket sales were slow. She stuck with it, 27 women showed up, the rails looked gorgeous, and she's already committed to doing it again. Nicola ran a group photo shoot for women in business, designed specifically for those who feel nervous or vulnerable in front of a camera.Both events triggered the same pattern: belief in the concept, doubt creeping in as the date approached, and the temptation to quit. This episode is a deep dive into that experience.Key themes:Doubt is a growth signal, not a warning sign. When something really matters to you, that's exactly when doubt shows up — because it feels personal.Action comes before confidence. You can't wait until you feel confident to do the thing. You do the thing, and the confidence follows.Community raises courage. Having people around you who believe in what you're doing changes everything — for you and for them.You are the expert in the room. Whether you're hosting a swap, running a shoot, or showing up for your business, people are looking to you to lead. Own it.Value-led decisions feel heavy — and that's okay. When you cancel something you believe in, you're not just losing an event. You're letting down a version of yourself.What happened at the events:Michelle's clothes swap: 27 women, rails organized by colour, a short (possibly slightly long, according to her mum) welcome speech, and an atmosphere full of women helping each other find new outfits.Nicola's group shoot: Women who'd never had professional photos taken left feeling like they'd levelled up. Five more dates already booked.Also this week:Michelle went to a silent disco in Southwell. It was surprisingly fun.Jarred got measured for a bespoke suit in London. The service was not bespoke.A call to listeners: What are you currently talking yourself out of that actually matters to you?Get in touch: Email: [email protected] Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast, Michelle's website www.mrsstylewright.com, Nicola's website www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk