Conscious Relationship Check: Are You in a Bad Relationship? | Ep162

This conscious relationship episode asks a confronting question: are you in a bad relationship? To see a relationship clearly, you need to do the shadow work that most of us skip entirely. In this episode, Georgianna and Steph get into two questions that help you tell whether your relationship is actually toxic or misaligned, or if you’re in a healthy relationship that you’re just not fully inhabiting yet.Most of us spend our energy tracking the other person — their actions, their words, their patterns — while largely missing our own part of the dance. The episode covers what it looks like to own what you genuinely want and need in a partner (not just what “sounds reasonable”), how your patterns of protection can make you dismiss something good or cling to something wrong, and the real test for a partner: not that they're already skilled at emotional depth and self-expression, but that they demonstrate a consistent willingness to try.Georgianna and Steph share their own stories about relationships where they couldn't see clearly, and they walk you through a body-based practice for tuning into both sides of your relationship: the things you love, the things that are hard — and what you personally contribute to each. What you'll learn:Why you can't assess a relationship clearly when your attachment patterns are running the showThe two streams of self-inquiry: what you want, and what's your part in the danceHow eagerness for a relationship to "be the thing" can make you ignore what you already knowThe difference between wanting a partner who can do conflict and wanting them to be a perfect fitWhat willingness looks like — and why it matters more than capacityA body-based practice for owning both the light and shadow sides of your relationshipWhy performing happiness is the thing that keeps you from a relationship that's actually alignedResources Mentioned:Somatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practiceConscious Relationship Training — 10-week live cohort, twice yearly; fall cohort doors open soonThe Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — self-paced practice library