Consult a Counselor: Kids and Lying

 Welcome to The Consult a Counselor Series, a special segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, where therapist and host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, LPC, NCC, tackles real-life parenting-related questions, helping you find balance, reduce worry, and live mindfully with your children.Today’s Question:"How should I address my child’s lying or dishonest behavior?"In this episode, Vanessa explores the tricky topic of lying in children and teens. She breaks down the developmental reasons behind dishonesty at different ages, helping parents understand why young kids and teens might lie and how to respond effectively. Vanessa shares practical, age-appropriate strategies to address lying while maintaining a trusting relationship, teaching children about accountability, and supporting their emotional development.Tune in to learn:How to recognize the differences in lying behaviors between young children and teensWays to stay calm and gather information to understand the root cause of dishonestyAge-specific tips to encourage honesty in both early elementary children and teenagersHow to set clear boundaries and logical consequences that reinforce trustWhy modeling honesty and keeping communication open are key to fostering honesty at any ageVanessa’s insights offer parents a balanced approach to handling lying in a way that fosters growth, understanding, and connection with their child.Takeaway Message: Addressing dishonesty in a calm and thoughtful way not only helps children understand the value of honesty but also builds a foundation of trust. Remember, every age has its unique challenges, and with patience and guidance, you’re helping your child develop into a responsible, truthful adult.Listen in, and remember... you’re always free to be mindful!Send us Fan MailSupport the showNJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact LET’S STAY CONNECTED 🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast 🎁 Free Resource — 120 Coping Skills: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/ 💛 Private Coaching for the Mom CEO: https://www.amigamoms.com 🎤 Speaking & Workshops: https://www.freetobemindful.com/speaking 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/counselorvdejesus/DISCLAIMER:Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.