EPISODE · Sep 23, 2025 · 22 MIN
Contempt
from Islamic Life Coach School Podcast · host Kanwal Akhtar
Contempt sneaks into our closest relationships disguised as righteousness. We don't think we're feeling superior...we simply believe we're right. What makes this emotion particularly dangerous is that it requires two specific ingredients to flourish: a shared history and a presumption of equality. This explains why we rarely feel contempt for strangers or children, but frequently harbor it toward partners, close family members, and long-term friends.This emotion keeps your nervous system subtly activated at all times, draining energy that could fuel creativity, intimacy, and joy. And perhaps most devastating is the contempt we direct inward, constantly judging ourselves through impossible standards. Breaking free starts with acknowledgment, creating space between feeling and truth, and choosing self-compassion over judgment. When you treat yourself with respect and fairness, you close one of the easiest doors through which negativity enters your life and relationships.Ready to transform your relationship with yourself and others? Listen now to discover practical tools for recognizing contempt and replacing it with connection. Your heart and your relationships will thank you.I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum.Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process.Apply for a Commitment Rate todayhttps://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec
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Contempt sneaks into our closest relationships disguised as righteousness. We don't think we're feeling superior...we simply believe we're right. What makes this emotion particularly dangerous is that it requires two specific ingredients to flourish: a shared history and a presumption of equality. This explains why we rarely feel contempt for strangers or children, but frequently harbor it toward partners, close family members, and long-term friends. This emotion keeps your nervous system su...
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