Cookout Code: Vibes, Plates & Playlist Protocols

Welcome back to Mama We Made It! with Dj and Reg. Today, they get into the art and etiquette of summer gatherings, breaking down what defines a cookout, set, or barbecue in Black culture. The duo kick things off with some overdue recognition for legendary director Michael Schultz before diving into the real rules of the backyard: from how much it really costs to feed a crowd to why you should never show up empty-handed (unless the host insists).  Dj and Reg keep it honest about potluck pitfalls, what dishes should stay home (keep your raisins and store-bought cookies, please), and why food integrity—and vibes—matter more than ever. The conversation goes beyond food as they talk dress codes (toes out or nah?), lineup for the grill, and the power of a well-crafted playlist. Etiquette around elders, prayer, and taking home plates gets a thoughtful, funny spin reflecting their own family traditions and experiences. By the end, Dj and Reg deliver a summer survival guide for anyone planning or attending a cookout, making sure everyone leaves full, happy, and with a few new rules to live by. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hRNUQbB1yyM  You can also listen to Mama, We Made It! with Dj & Reg on: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mama-we-made-it-with-dj-reg/id1809918939     Spotify Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/20eLaINMng2ISxB3TH6hED?si=ac880381abfd406f