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Could you do this? Nobody likes to do it. Nobody likes to wait. Nobody likes to have to defer. Nobody likes to be overlooked or taken for granted or yoked to somebody else. It's been said that the most difficult instrument in the orchestra is second fiddle. Can you imagine being Marcus Aurelius? He was chosen to succeed Hadrian, but first he had to learn under Antoninus. Except that Antoninus lives for another two decades. Think of the patience, the humility, the self-control, the endurance. It's frustrating to have to wait for six months, let alone six years.
And nearly 36% of Marcus's life was spent waiting for Antoninus to retire or pass away. But not only does Marcus really put up with this, he uses it. He understood that power and responsibility were heavy things, that it was actually a gift to delay them. It was time with family, time to be normal. He understood that it was a complex job he was taking over and that every minute of prior experience was a benefit, that every lesson was priceless.
life is going to ask you to wait sometimes. There will be people ahead of you. There will be things you have to learn. You're going to have to play second fiddle. And to be able to do this will require all of the stoic virtues. It will take wisdom to see that waiting is not wasted. It will take courage not to quit or complain. It will take justice to keep giving your best even when the spotlight belongs to someone else. It will take discipline to hold your ego in check, to resist resentment, to keep showing up.
That's the question. And could you do that? Could you wait without becoming bitter? Could you serve without being seen? Could you prepare without knowing exactly when your moment will come? You know, when I was working on the Stowed Virtue Series, I thought it'd be like a four-year series. Instead, it was like a six-plus year series. Stuff takes what it takes. And you got to learn how to be patient. And patience and waiting, as I said, requires all those virtues, courage, discipline, justice, wisdom. If you want to grab a signed copy of the box set, you can. I will link to that in today's show notes. I hope you check it out.
Do your job. Whatever anyone does or says for my part, I'm bound to the good. In the same way an emerald or gold or purple might always proclaim, whatever anyone does or says, I must be what I am and show my true colors. That's Marcus Aurelius' Meditation 715. This is from The Daily Stilic, 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance, and the art of living by me, Ryan Holiday, and my friend Stephen Hanselman. You can get this anywhere books are sold, audiobook, physical. We even have an awesome leather-bound edition in The Daily Stilic store. You can check that out.
dailystoic.com slash leather. But let's get on to the meditation today. The Stoics believed that every person, animal, and thing has a purpose or place in nature. Even in ancient Greek and Roman times, they vaguely understood that the world was composed of millions of tiny atoms. It was this idea, this sense of the interconnected cosmos that underpinned their sense that every person, every action was part of a larger system. Everyone had a job, a specific duty. Even those who did bad things, they were doing their job of being evil.
because evil is unfortunately a part of life. The most critical part of the system was the belief that you, the student who has sought out stoicism, have the most important job, to be good, to be wise, to remain the person that philosophy wished to make us, as Marcus Aurelius said. Do your job today. Whatever happens, whatever other people's jobs happen to be, do yours. Be good. This is one of my favorite entries in Marcus Aurelius. And you know, it's funny, he talks about being good, doing good, talks about the common good, like dozens and dozens of times in meditations.
Because that is stoicism. Yes, it's an individual philosophy, but individual in the sense of that famous quote about being the change that you want to see in the world. And in fact, this is something that Stoics say, if you want to see good, you do good. We always have the ability to do our job. And in doing our job, we know the world.
is not totally lost, that it's not hopeless, that there is good because we can produce it. Marcus says that we are sort of a fountain of goodness. It's always bubbling up. Yes, sometimes it gets covered over by dirt or whatever, but we can dig it out. We can get that water flowing again. So that's the imperative today. What good can you do? I remember being in Boy Scouts as a kid, you know, do one good turn every day. What can you do? Can you hold the door open for someone? Can you give someone a compliment? Can you...
Pay for someone's coffee. Can you give an employee a few hours off? You know, what can you do? Who can you help? Who can you serve? What kind of difference can you make? And yes, this doesn't solve massive collective action problems. I understand that. Those do exist. Those do need to be addressed. But think of the impact that this collective individual action can have. Yesterday, my two sons and I, we went on our morning walk and there was just so much trash by the side of the road and we didn't have time to get it. It was starting to get bad. And we just, I said, you know what? We're going to get the ATV after dinner. Instead of going for our evening walk, we're going to...
Get a trash bag. We're going to pick all this up. We went out. It took about 30 minutes. We filled a giant trash bag with trash. It was fun. It was outside. They loved it. Oh, there's one. There's a piece. It was a fun little game. But here's the thing. When I went on the walk this morning, the goodness was there. It was visible. The trash was not there. And, you know, there's satisfaction in feeling like, hey, that didn't end up in a river somewhere. That didn't end up in a bird's stomach. Maybe it didn't end up in my stomach, right? We made a tiny difference. And I'm going to walk by tomorrow. There's going to be more trash. No one's going to throw me a parade. I'm not going to get thanked for it. But I did it because it's my job.
My job is to show my true colors to be good, to do good, to fight to be the person that philosophy wants to make us. That's what Stoicism is about. I'm really excited to think of all the good that the many, many, many, many thousands of listeners listening to this podcast can cumulatively do, not just in the future, but right now, today, when you stop listening to this message. Go out there, get at it.