Couldn't, Shouldn't, Wouldn't

Who is living inside your head? What voices are telling you that you shouldn't, you couldn't, or that they wouldn't do what you're thinking about doing? The overarching theme of the "Are You Relentlessly Resilient?" podcast is this - change may be hard, but staying the same is harder. Too many times those the "love us" tell us we want too much, that what we are doing is dangerous, and that we'll be disappointed. B.S. That is their fear speaking and yet you may believe what they are saying is true. Is 2026 going to be another year of SSDD (same sh*&, different day)? Three of my friends have recently either gotten divorced or are in the process of it. And we're talking after decades of marriage. I am not advocating for divorce, but I am advocating giving yourself permission to be loved, to grow, and to fulfill your potential. The hardest experience in a marriage or in any relationship is growing when your partner is not. But are you willing to get to the end of your life and regret not being all you could be? Something to think about as we continue to move into 2026.