Councillor Allan Hubley | Turning Pain into Purpose: A Conversation on Bullying, Healing, and Accountability

⚠️ Content note: This post discusses bullying, loss, and suicide. Please read with care.This is one of the most meaningful episodes of Tune Up Your Warrior I’ve ever recorded. In this episode with Councillor Allan Hubley, who I've had the privilege of knowing for almost 20 years, we talk not only about the impact of bullying and the role of bystanders, but also what happens in the aftermath — when families and young people are left carrying the weight of that harm.This conversation is rooted in the life and legacy of Jamie Hubley, Allan’s son, whose story continues to shape how our community talks about bullying, responsibility, and care.Jamie’s legacy continues through the Jamie Hubley Memorial Scholarship, which supports Ottawa youth pursuing post-secondary education with a connection to mental health — through lived experience, advocacy, or future care work.It’s about ensuring lived experience is recognized as strength, and that young people have pathways forward, not barriers.To learn more about the Jamie Hubley Memorial Scholarship or to apply before March 31, visit ysb.ca.We also talk about breaking cycles.Just because someone was treated a certain way in the past doesn’t mean they’re destined to repeat that behaviour. In fact, it creates a powerful opportunity to choose differently — to decide that no one else should ever feel the way you once did.This episode launches February 25, in recognition of Canada’s Day of Pink.It’s not about blame. It’s about responsibility. And it’s about understanding that every one of us has more influence than we think.🎧 Episode is out now: https://linktr.ee/catalaisIf this conversation brings up anything difficult for you or someone you love, support is available:📞 Talk Suicide Canada: Call or text 988 (24/7, Canada-wide)📞 Youth Services Bureau of Ottawa: 613-260-2360 / ysb.caIf you’re outside Canada, please reach out to local emergency services or a trusted mental health provider in your area. You are not alone.