Couples Q&A With Dr. Cheryl - Fight Fair, Fall Back in Lust, and Rediscover Your Sweetheart

In episode 25 of Sex, Love, and Elephants, you’ll hear real couples ask the burning questions you’re dying to ask: “How can we learn to fight fair?” “We fight all the time, will we get divorced?” “I have very little sexual desire for my partner, how can I get it back?” You’ll also hear some testimonials from former students who have gone through my Become Passion program. Today, I’m sharing with you an exclusive glimpse into an open Q&A forum from a very recent session featuring 100 couples who finally said, “Enough!” And decided to do something to change their lackluster, passionless love lives. Some of them will continue on to embark on a 10 week, totally immersive couples program to restore their spark, fall back in love with love, and join me on the extraordinary journey to Becoming Passion. By the end of this twice a year course, they’ll have attended 10 classes, had their burning questions answered, and received coaching—all from yours truly.  I’ve had brave couples join my Become Passion- Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime program and make absolutely incredible changes to their relationships by finally investing the heart, love, and care that they had been depriving one another. I have seen couples go from no intimacy at all to making love again! Whether it’s affairs, nasty fights, or just complete and total boredom, the program has seen it all AND helped it all.  If you're listening on November 1, 2021, there may still be a chance for you to join the Become Passion program in the next couple of days. Please send an email to [email protected]. Some Questions Answered: How do I get my spouse to focus on us as a couple and not just be part of our family? (06:57) Is it possible to feel sexual desire for my partner again? (11:28) We fight a lot. Are we doomed? (16:53) When I do things for my sweetheart, he discounts them and says he doesn't deserve it—what can I do? (27:41) My partner had an emotional affair. He says it's over and he's not sure he wants to stay married. Is there any hope for us? (43:59) Am I a fool to forgive an affair? (56:01) Can verbal abuse be fixed? (1:01:46) Q&A: What should I do if I feel like my partner has fallen out of love with me? You only ever have three options in a relationship: stay the way it is, break up, or stay and try again. Look to the Three Keys to Intimacy. We haven’t had fun since we've had kids. Is that normal?  While this is incredibly “normal” in the sense that it’s typical, it certainly doesn’t have to be. The key is to separate yourselves from being parents vs being lovers—make scheduled time to cherish your romantic relationship, away from the kids. Will going to couples therapy save my relationship? A couples coach is like a personal trainer. They can't fix you or make you fit,  but they can guide you on what needs to be done to move forward.  Let’s Connect! Website - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here  Facebook Page   Youtube If you want to rate your relationship, take the Passion Quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.