Creating Respectful Work Cultures Through Coaching Abrasive Leaders with Catherine Mattice

About Catherine Mattice: Catherine founded Civility Partners in 2008 as a result of working in a toxic environment and has since served a huge array of clients with consulting, training and coaching services. She's written three books, one of which Ken Blanchard called, "the most comprehensive and valuable handbook on the topic" of workplace bullying. Catherine's also been cited in such media outlets as Forbes.com, Inc Magazine, Entrepreneur, and USA Today, and appeared as a guest on such venues as NPR and CNN. Catherine is active in the International Association for Workplace Bullying & Harassment (IAWBH) and one of the four founding members of the National Workplace Bullying Coalition, a nonprofit organization focused on ending workplace bullying. She has a Bachelor's and Master's in Communication and taught communication courses at the college level for ten years. In this episode, Jordan and Catherine discuss: The part that the organization plays in abrasive cultures The paradox of a respectful culture  Overcoming one's own abrasiveness  The cost of having an unhealthy culture  Key Takeaways: The organization plays a much bigger role than they're often given credit for. In many cases, an organization has an abrasive leader because the organization has allowed it to happen or they don't have the right policies and procedures in place to keep it from happening. The goal with creating a respectful culture is creating a psychologically safe environment. This doesn't mean that we promote or empower a culture of victimhood because victimhood in itself is a bullying tactic. People should be allowed to show up as authentic while also making them feel safe.  A big piece of being able to overcome abrasive behavior is acknowledging that you're imperfect, you make mistakes, and that you can learn from these mistakes. Telling others that you have a tendency to say things the wrong way but you're working on it would be a huge boost in morale for people that you lead.  If people feel scared, they are more likely to make mistakes and in some workplace environments, mistakes can be riskier or could mean accidental physical harm. That's why it's important, in all environments, to create a culture of psychological safety.  "A lot of times what the clients are essentially saying is 'I'm learning that mistakes are okay, that we can learn from them. It's okay to be human.'" —  Catherine Mattice Get your own electronic copy of "How To Coach Abrasive Leaders" ebook for free by clicking on this link: https://civilitypartners.com/how-to-coach-abrasive-leaders/    FREE Resources For Developing A Healthy Workplace Culture: https://civilitypartners.com/free-resources/    Connect with Catherine Mattice:   Website: https://civilitypartners.com/  Email: [email protected]  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinemattice/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CivilityPartners/  Twitter : https://twitter.com/CivilityCP  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/civilitypartners/    Connect with Jordan:  For executives wanting a complimentary executive coaching conversation: [email protected]  Website: www.workplacewarriorinc.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/jordangoldrich1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordan.goldrich Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordangoldrich/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jgoldrich/