Creating Safe spaces for women and Emotional Labour - Kanwal Ahmed - TPE #092

Kanwal Ahmed is the founder of the Facebook group, Soul Sisters, and the creator of the show, 'Conversations with Kanwal, aimed towards breaking stigma around certain issues and openly talking about them.  Soul Sisters was created as a community and a safe space for women to discuss their lives. Kanwal Ahmed comes on the podcast to discuss her entire journey - from being misunderstood, bullied, labelled and the burn out that comes from managing all of that.  In this deep dive podcast, we discuss the backlash against the Aurat March, online communities, dealing with hate online, Crowdsourcing Conversations with Kanwal and the journey of Soul Sisters.   Please consider supporting us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thepakistanexperience And Please stay in touch: https://twitter.com/ThePakistanExp1 https://www.facebook.com/thepakistanexperience https://instagram.com/thepakistanexpeperience  The podcast is hosted by comedian and writer, Shehzad Ghias Shaikh. Shehzad is a Fulbright scholar with a Masters in Theatre from Brooklyn College. He is also one of the foremost Stand-up comedians in Pakistan and frequently writes for numerous publications. He can be found on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Tinder.  https://www.facebook.com/Shehzadgs/ https://twitter.com/shehzad89 https://instagram.com/shehzadghiasshaikh  Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 1:00 Why Kanwal Created Soul Sisters 5:00 How to keep spaces safe 7:45 Is Soul Sisters Progressive or Regressive? 13:30 Administering Facebook Groups 18:30 Sourcing Stories from Soul Sisters 22:00 Capitalism and Community Building 25:30 Jealousy in Pakistan 34:00 Do people grow or is it performative? 36:20 How to know your worth 43:20 Crowdsourcing Conversations with Kanwal 50:20 Exploitative nature of media 1:01:00 Emotional Labour 1:13:00 Backlash online 1:18:00 Conversations with Kanwal 1:22:00 Facing hate online 1:39:00 Awareness vs Civic Engagement  1:44:00 Conversations with Kanwal 1:45:10 Talking to Men 1:48:00 SSP is Trans inclusive 1:50:00 Closing remarks