Creating Sexy, Safe, and Soulful Community with Jamie Love, Ep. 118

What actually happens at sex-positive events? Cuddle parties? Consent circles? Erotic service? 👀 In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I sit down with Jamie Love, Executive Director of Sex Positive World, to talk about the radical, healing, and totally human side of building sex-positive community.We cover:How to start a sex-positive space or community near youWhat consent really looks like (hint: it’s not just “yes or no”)Erotic service, safer sex talks, and the power of devotional touchWhat to expect at events like cuddle parties, massage-a-trois, and self-pleasure circlesJamie’s relationship style: when your community is your primary partnerThe truth about creating spaces that are inclusive, beginner-friendly, and deeply transformativeAnd what’s coming up at Polytopia 2025—Portland’s conference for polyamorous people, where I’ll be a featured speaker!If you’re curious about non-monogamy, ethical sluthood, radical consent, or how to make friends (and maybe lovers) outside the mainstream—this episode is for you.🔗 LEARN MORE 👉 Sex Positive World: https://www.sexpositiveworld.org 👉 Polytopia Conference: https://www.sexpositiveportland.org/polytopia-2025 👉 Jamie Love on Instagram: https://instagram.com/jamielove_pdx 👉 Support the show + get bonus content: https://patreon.com/notmonogamous 👉 Learn more about me: https://www.elleciapaine.comSend us Fan MailSupport the show📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter ❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous 👀 Find Us Online🌍 Website:  https://www.elleciapaine.com📘 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine 📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar LindsteinSTIM IPI: 572 393 237