Criticizing Criticism

What do you do when someone says your singing voice sounds like a dying moose? Or when a stranger at church pats your head to check for horns? For Jesse Butterworth—pastor, musician, and longtime friend of Amy Liz Harrison—criticism has been a constant companion.In this raw and surprisingly funny conversation, Amy and Jesse unpack why criticism stings, how to tell the difference between critique and cruelty, and why sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is simply: “That hurts my feelings.” From the pitfalls of passive-aggressive culture to the healing power of forgiveness, Jesse reminds us that being misunderstood is inevitable—but losing yourself doesn’t have to be.Resources & Guest LinksGuest: Jesse Butterworth – Pastor, musician, storyteller. https://www.jessebutterworth.com/Book Mentioned: ⁠Radical Candor⁠ by Kim ScottIf this conversation resonated with you, subscribe to Eternally Amy wherever you listen to podcasts. Share this episode with someone navigating criticism in their own life—it just might change the way they see themselves. And don’t forget to follow Amy on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn @amylizharrison or visit amylizharrison.com for coaching, memoirs, and resources.