EPISODE · Apr 23, 2017 · 2 MIN
错误:人们总在二十来岁时犯的三个错误有什么
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What are the three biggest mistakes that people make in their 20s?Liselle CokerUpdated Apr 10MISTAKE 1: Thinking “OH…I’m young so…”WHen you’re in your twenties, you feel like you have your whole life ahead of you and you have inexhaustible time to do whatever you should be doing right now, but couldn’t be bothered to do. This is a fatal mistake to make because your twenties fly by like Casey Neistat on his hoverboard. Before you know it, you’re thirty and wondering what the heck you actually DID with your twenties, and then you pick up a magazine and read an article entitle “ Top 30 under 30” and realize that you were wasting your youth while other people were building things that will pay off for them in their 30s. You’re in your twenties. YEs, you’re young, so go do something meaningful with that.MISTAKE 2: Thinking “it’s ok to be young and stupid”Some twenty somethings use their youth as an excuse to experiment with every dumb thing they can get their hands on. This usually includes casual sex, drugs, vandalism, and other generally stupid activities. Stupidity kills. STOP THAT. I don’t care how young you are. If you’re old enough to know it’s stupid, then you’re old enough to NOT BE STUPID! I know how you think this is gonna play out. You’re gonna have sex with that stranger, have the best time of your life, get the sweetest high ever and trash the place, never getting caught and having amazing stories to tell. REALITY: You get an incurable STD, or pregnant; now this stranger is in your life forever, the drugs mess with your psyche, you trash the place and get caught and have your first crime on record. DON’T DO IT!!! STupidity haunts your life. STupidity won’t let you be great!MISTAKE 3: Thinking “I only need friends my age. Old people are wack…”Ok smartypants. Keep surrounding yourself with a knowledge base as limited as yours and see how well you fare in life. In your twenties, you need direction . YOu need wisdom! With age comes wisdom (hopefully) and older folks have a lot to show you and tell you that can accelerate your process and spare you many years of floundering and mistake making.RELATIONSHIPS ARE KEY TO GROWTH! They can make or break you. You can either grow into a better person, or a worse person . It all depends on who you associate with. Don’t just keep young people around you. Please.
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