Curfews In Relationships Respectful or Nah?

Within a long term relationship, MARRIED or COHABITATING, can your SPOUSE or significant other STAY OUT ALL NIGHT?  Can you trust someone who enjoys CLUBBING and staying out at night?  What if the couple met at a club, should they curb their return time from clubbing to appease their mate?  Some say it's DISRESPECTFUL to come home late, while others find it disrespectful to control their time, which is it?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK