Curious About Ball Busting? You’re Not Alone

In this episode, we unzip ball busting—a kink Dr. Sue gets asked about regularly through Hey Dr. Sue, and one that’s often surrounded by judgment, confusion, assumptions, and quiet shame. We talk plainly about what ball busting is and why having accurate language can make these conversations feel less awkward and a lot more human. We focus on what actually matters when it comes to any consensual kink—communication, consent, and safety—covering boundaries, safe words, check-ins, and aftercare, while also clearing up common misconceptions about fetishes along the way. Above all, if you’re curious about or enjoy ball busting, there’s nothing wrong with you.This episode is about answering real questions with care and without judgment. It’s about making space for curiosity, normalizing honest conversations, and reminding listeners that kink—like all aspects of sexuality—can be explored responsibly, safely, and without shame.If you have a story, thoughts and/or a topic or question for Dr. Sue and Charlie please share your ideas here:  ⁠Show suggestionsIf you want to ask Dr Sue a sex question for the weekly Q&A you can submit it here: Ask a question