Cutting them off isn't your only option: How CRAFT supports you and your loved one through their addiction (with Jane Macky)

Is Al-Anon and 12-Step the best approach for families navigating their loved one’s addiction? The pressure to issue ultimatums or cut them off entirely can feel like the only path forward. But what if the advice you've been given is outdated, incomplete, not for you, or just wrong?In this episode, Jane Mackey, CEO and founder of We The Village and certified family coach, challenges what families are told about loving someone through addiction, and how to move beyond the 12-step approach used in Al-Anon and Nar-Anon. Jane found CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) after desperately searching for real tools to help someone she loved, and has since built an accessible family coaching program around it.Together, we get into:Why "tough love" and "rock bottom" became the default, and where they actually fall shortThe enabling myth: how to tell the difference between hurting and helpingHow to respond to their substance use without losing controlWhy cutting someone off makes it harder for them to get help and can reduce your influence over their recoveryWhether CRAFT and 12-step can coexist, or if they're fundamentally at oddsHow families report feeling less anxious and depressed through CRAFT — even when their loved one never gets helpIf you've ever felt like you're choosing between abandoning someone you love and losing yourself entirely, this episode is for you.We The Village is offering listeners 20% off their programs — use code FLOR at wethevillage.co📘Download our FREE, sibling e-book: 6 actions to help navigate a sibling’s substance use journey🤝Join our FREE and PRIVATE sibling-focused community: Siblings For Love of Recovery📲Connect with FLOR: Instagram and TikTok🎙Guest speaker: Jane Macky, founder and CEO of We The Village