Dad Life: Where Coffee Is Essential But Jesus Is Everything

Three fathers sit down for an intimate conversation about the peaks and valleys of parenthood in this powerful exploration of fatherhood through the lens of faith. Lee Miles shares his evolution as a father of four, describing how each child brought unique challenges that revealed his own spiritual growth—from anxious over-providing with his first to peaceful trust by his fourth. "God, I got this," he reflects on his current mindset, "What I think and what I believe... Lord, you're so much more than that."Ben Puckett offers a heartbreaking yet hope-filled perspective as he navigates being "a father to four but getting to be a father to one." After experiencing the loss of three children at different stages, he speaks candidly about parenting his six-year-old daughter while grieving, and how her questions about heaven create profound opportunities to share faith. His vulnerability illuminates the reality that fatherhood sometimes includes devastating loss.The conversation delves into how marriage relationships transform after children arrive. Both men emphasize the importance of intentionally cultivating friendship with their wives amid the demands of parenting—whether through planned outings, shared activities, or simply creating space to connect beyond discussions about children. As Ben puts it, "I just want to feel like we're friends together."At the heart of this episode lies a powerful reminder: "Good things will take from best things." The fathers discuss how easy it is for their identity to become wrapped up in fatherhood rather than in Christ, and how discipleship—not just discipline—creates opportunities to point children toward Jesus. This distinction becomes particularly poignant when walking children through difficult realities like death and loss.Whether you're a new parent, a seasoned father, or someone walking alongside those experiencing the rollercoaster of parenthood, this conversation offers wisdom, comfort, and a reminder that even in seasons of despair, there remains an unshakable hope that transforms how we parent, love, and live.Support the show You can connect with Tony and Laura at [email protected] (X) @TonySmith4520https://www.thewalkfm.com/Newsletter and Prayer and Promises AccessYou can support Tony and Laura https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tonysmith Thanks for listening and supporting our show!