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EPISODE · Nov 26, 2025 · 57 MIN

Dad Mode 2.0: What Modern Dads Are Really Carrying Into the Holidays

from After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

The holidays are here… and so is the pressure. In this episode, Kristin and Tyler pull the curtain all the way back on what moms and dads are really carrying into Thanksgiving week: the invisible loads, the silent expectations, the emotional pressure cookers nobody talks about. If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner are walking into the holidays as two overwhelmed people fighting the same fire from opposite corners of the house… this is your reset button.We’re breaking down:* Why moms enter the holidays already burnt out (and it’s NOT a personal failure)* The surprising emotional load dads carry that no one sees* How “Mom Mode” and “Dad Mode” quietly collide and create a holiday meltdown spiral* The stats behind why this week feels so damn heavy* The real reason partners snap, shut down, or suddenly fix random things* What dads wish they could say but don’t* And the simple plan that helps couples stay a team instead of turning on each otherThis is the conversation that diffuses resentment, increases teamwork, and gives your whole family a calmer, more connected holiday. If you’re heading into the week overwhelmed, resentful, overstimulated, or bracing for impact, listen to this first. It might just change the way your whole house feels.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.If you're looking for gifts that are guaranteed to surprise and delight, head to Neiman MarcusDiscover all of the ways a Chrysler Pacifica can make your life and your family's rides easier and more enjoyable by visiting chrysler.com/pacificaVisit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code BLF20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Expires December 31, 2025.Use code BLF at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. That's 50% off your first year!Visit covesmart.com and use code BLF for an additional 10% off your first order!Get 15% off your first order at branchbasics.com/BLF with promo code BLF.Head to timeline.com/biglittlefeelings for 20% off Mitopure gummies! Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The holidays are here… and so is the pressure. In this episode, Kristin and Tyler pull the curtain all the way back on what moms and dads are really carrying into Thanksgiving week: the invisible loads, the silent expectations, the emotional pressure cookers nobody talks about. If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner are walking into the holidays as two overwhelmed people fighting the same fire from opposite corners of the house… this is your reset button.We’re breaking down:* Why moms enter the holidays already burnt out (and it’s NOT a personal failure)* The surprising emotional load dads carry that no one sees* How “Mom Mode” and “Dad Mode” quietly collide and create a holiday meltdown spiral* The stats behind why this week feels so damn heavy* The real reason partners snap, shut down, or suddenly fix random things* What dads wish they could say but don’t* And the simple plan that helps couples stay a team instead of turning on each otherThis is the conversation that diffuses resentment, increases teamwork, and gives your whole family a calmer, more connected holiday. If you’re heading into the week overwhelmed, resentful, overstimulated, or bracing for impact, listen to this first. It might just change the way your whole house feels.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.If you're looking for gifts that are guaranteed to surprise and delight, head to Neiman MarcusDiscover all of the ways a Chrysler Pacifica can make your life and your family's rides easier and more enjoyable by visiting chrysler.com/pacificaVisit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code BLF20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Expires December 31, 2025.Use code BLF at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. That's 50% off your first year!Visit covesmart.com and use code BLF for an additional 10% off your first order!Get 15% off your first order at branchbasics.com/BLF with promo code BLF.Head to timeline.com/biglittlefeelings for 20% off Mitopure gummies! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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