My name is Rolvil Asses and this is your daily edge. I'm going to be back. The first question is what? What happens?
So we went through what happened, then we started looking at why is it, is that a trigger? Why is it bothering him? And then we look at the possible solution based on patterns. And every single time that you only focus on the problem, every single time that you blame, somebody, you know, look at the big picture.
Only when you start looking at feedback and going deeper into what it is that's going on in your life, why is there a trigger and what's the pattern that continues to repeat itself? And one of the patterns that we discover is the illusion that you're supposed to hold the space for him. Because Rolv is in your wife supposed to hold the space for you, who's going to hold the space for the king? And he's going to hold the space when I'm stressed.
What I told him is you are the head of the family. You may not be ordained by God to leave your family. Why are you expecting your wife to hold the space for you? He looked at me and said, well, man, you're tough, man, because every time that we talk, man, you make it all about me.
You make it all about what I need to do. So I asked him, who can you control? Who's the only one who you control? And I said, that's why everything is on you.
Everything is on you. Everything is on you. Everything is on you. And if you want to change starts with you.
And I said, if somebody is supposed to hold the space for you, it's not your queen. It's not your wife. It is the highest version of you. The reason that you drift and the reason that you don't feel connected is because you're not relying on the highest version of you.
You're black in that version of you. You're black in the blessing and you only relying on your limited knowledge of who you are now. So if I only rely on the raw version of me, that's right now, I couldn't do what I want to do every single day. I'm feeling guided to become better.
That's what having the edge means. Do you have the energy to execute? Do you have the determination to sit things through? And do you have the feeling of being guided to execute?
If you're not being guided, you're losing the edge. If you're not being guided by higher calling, higher purpose, higher cause, you're losing the edge. So my intention for you today is if you're feeling the people in the hole in the space for you, you're feeling like people are meeting up your expectations, going to ask yourself, where am I now? Not guiding myself.
Where am I black in the blessings that I can connect with the highest version of me? The version of me that's already connected with God. The version of me who's already created a bigger impact. The version of me that's already made should happen.
That's the job of a leader every single day to be guided by higher calling. But that takes work. That takes skills. That takes mastery.
It's easy for you to blame your employees, to blame their market, to blame your wife, to blame your case, to blame everyone else. It's hard as fuck to take 100% ownership. And realize that everything is on me. The moment that you're being guided by higher power, you will listen to the voice that's telling that life is giving you exactly what you need to fucking get stronger.
Whatever is going on right now in your life, just know that God will never give you more that you can't handle. And your job is just to get the feedback. Because that's what life is. Life is feedback.
And go deeper and look at what happened. Why is it bothering you? What are the triggers? What are the patterns?
So you can learn from your experience and find the gift and double down on you. Because the best is yet to come. Have an amazing day. Learn it.
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