My name is Raul Villases and this is Udellie Edge. Every man is going to feel at a certain point in his life that the world is in his shoulders, that he doesn't have what it takes to lead, and the pressure of being a leader. Three things you must avoid when you feel this way. The first thing you have to avoid is a comparison game.
Every single time that you play the comparison game, you're comparing your life to somebody else's life. And you're always going to lose because you never know what you're going through. You're always going to just see the things from the outside. You're not seeing the things from the inside.
So stop playing the comparison game because you're always going to feel that you're not enough. The second is dwelling on the past. Every single time that you've built the past, there is zero upside of growth. Learn from your past, but don't dwell on it.
Don't dwell on your failures, don't dwell on your mistakes. Just let them go. And the third one is isolating yourself. This is not the time of you feeling like the world's on your shoulder, you feel like there's so much pressure.
This is not the time for you to try to do this on your own. Stop isolating yourself. Don't build yourself a wall and pretend that you're not hurting. Pretend that you have it all together.
This is the moment that you connect with others, but you have to break the pattern of playing the comparison game. Instead, be patient with yourself. See how far you've come. Understand that you in the journey and every single day you get a 1 better Create a compelling future Instead of building in the past focus on who are you becoming Where are you going And the most important is connect with others Be part of a tribe Make sure that you have people you count on My intention for you today is to stop beating yourself down.
Stop trying to play the comparison game. Stop dwelling on the past. Don't isolate yourself. It's the moment right now.
If you feel the pressure, if you feel like you can't lead anymore, if you feel like you don't have what it takes, this is the moment for you to be around people that will sharpen your edge. This is the moment that you find connection with others, connection with your purpose, connection with a higher power. This is the moment that you break through the pattern of letting go of who you were to step into who you could become. I can't wait to see every single one of you at the Leadership Summit, October 16 and 17.
My promise to you is that I'm not going to waste your fucking time. We're going to come together. We're going to sharpen the edge. I want to close that you're strong because proximity is power.
The moment that you're around men that have the edge, sharpening your edge is inevitable. It's time for you to level the fuck up and lead because the best is yet to come. Have an amazing day. Learn it.
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