Date Coach Series: Cody Lyans

How do you meet girls when you are the quiet, introverted guy? Well, the good news is, quiet guys have a lot of power to do very well with women, once they can get over that initial 'shyness' hump. In this podcast, you'll discover how veteran Girls Chase coach Cody Lyans went from quiet guy rejected by girls... to stud seducer who pulls women off dance floors and makes girls hang on his every word and beg to know him better. Along the way, Cody shares some of his powerful girl-getting technology, and gives you a peek at what you can expect to learn if you sign up for his paradigm-shifting 12-week coaching course. In this podcast you'll learn: ▪ On living places where it's tough to meet girls (01:18) ▪ How quiet of a guy is Cody Lyans? (02:23) ▪ The sexual element of Cody's quiet guy game (03:33) ▪ How Cody got his start in dating (03:47) ▪ Why Cody first started coaching guys on dating (18:40) ▪ What a 'base vibe' is and how this gets you past women's barriers (22:47) ▪ The thing most guys get wrong with their base vibes (23:40) ▪ What the base vibe of guys who are good with women look like (25:48) ▪ How easy (or hard) is it to get guys to drop bad, creepy, or platonic vibes? (27:20) ▪ Female psychology: why it's so important to understand how women think (31:27) ▪ The 'Female Mental Map', a simple way to spot what's going on with her (32:44) ▪ How to avoid landmines and find subtle details with the 'Smooth Guy Spyglass' (36:27) ▪ What makes resistance so hard for most guys to deal with... plus what resistance is (40:38) ▪ The 'head shake', one of the four (4) 'Resistance Milestones' (44:38) ▪ The secret to Resistance Milestones: what they mean and how to use them (50:25) ▪ The 'Interest Dial', a way to turn interest both up AND drop it back... as needed (52:27) ▪ What most guys get wrong about attraction (and why girls suddenly leave) (54:25) ▪ Some of the ways you turn the Interest Dial up and down (56:29) ▪ How much to dial it up with her depending on what you want in a situation (58:13) ▪ The 3 'Seduction States': Sporty, Sexy, and Happy (62:28) ▪ How to use the 3 Seduction States to get hookups, FWBs, and more (64:48) ▪ How to learn faster by not 'stuffing away' your experiences (69:22) ▪ 5 'Sell Lines' (Soft Endearing Loose Lines) that flip women's opinions on you (74:02) ▪ When during the courtship to use a Sell Line (80:01) ▪ Whether Cody gives students canned lines or trains students to make their own (84:24) ▪ The 5 Foundations of Dating Success (plus, Foundation#1: 'Spirit') (85:19) ▪ Why guys get discouraged about dating (and how to get past that) (87:20) ▪ Do you learn the Foundations all at once, or sequentially? (88:15) ▪ Cody shares the stories of a few of the students he's taught (89:44) ▪ What 'Invisible Escalation' is, and how to escalate without others noticing (94:04) ▪ How to sign up for a call with Cody Lyans and what to expect (97:40) ▪ Are there any guys who should not coach with Cody? (100:09) ▪ Exactly what a 12-week coaching course with Cody looks like and what you get (102:06) ▪ At-request tech: dance floor pulls/tactics and 2 no-fail kiss routines (104:38) ▪ For advanced students (10+ lays) only: the 20-minute lay course (105:29) To sign up for a free 10-minute call with Cody Lyans, please visit: https://www.girlschase.com/coaching/phone/cody