Dating After 50? Ask These 10 Questions First | Ep. 155

Dating after divorce in your 50s can feel exciting, terrifying, and exhausting all at once. In this episode, I share 10 powerful questions you need to ask yourself before you get emotionally invested.These questions help you stop chasing chemistry and start choosing peace. We talk about nervous system safety, emotional consistency, authentic self expression, and why you should never date someone’s potential. I also break down the difference between chaos and connection, and why midlife is the time to stop auditioning and start being chosen.If you are tired of walking on eggshells, second guessing every text, or shrinking to keep the peace, this episode will help you recalibrate. At this stage of life, love should steady you. Not stress you.In This Episode:00:00 Intro. Dating After Divorce in Your 50s00:32 Question 1. Does This Relationship Make My Life Easier or Harder01:00 Question 2. Do I Feel Calm or On Edge01:30 Question 3. Am I Chosen or Still Auditioning02:00 Question 4. Can I Be Fully Myself02:30 Question 5. Do I Feel Safe Speaking Up03:00 Sponsor Break03:40 Question 6. Do Their Actions Match Their Words04:05 Question 7. Am I Growing or Shrinking04:30 Question 8. Would I Choose Them If Nothing Changed04:55 Question 9. Does This Feel Steady05:20 Question 10. Am I Truly At Peace05:50 Chemistry Versus Peace in Midlife Love06:10 Final Takeaway and Call to Action Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out!Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: [email protected]: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: [email protected]: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastSubstack: https://karenbigman.substack.comTake control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.LINKS, EXCLUSIVE VIP DISCOUNTS, COURSES & FREEBIES🍋 Save 25% off on the Lem using code Taboo25🛒 Link: Hellonancy.com/discount/TABOO25🚨 Save 25% on Le Wand using code Taboo25🛒 Link: https://www.lewandmassager.com💦 Shop my favorite lube from Pjur🛒 Link: https://www.pntrac.com/t/8-10991-371921-141081?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.babeland.com%2Fsearch%3Fst%3Dproduct%26q%3Dpjur💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser | You’ve mastered everything else in life — now master pleasure! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiser