Dating Asian Women is a Skill, Work on It | Ep 155

Xiaoli Mei, Founder, CEO, and VIP Matchmaker, is a certified Professional Matchmaker and Relationship Coach with a background in psychology. After experiencing a failed marriage and years of dating struggles while raising two children as a single mom, she spent over a decade studying love and relationships. Her journey led to a personal breakthrough—finding lasting love with her husband, Jim—which inspired her to dedicate her career to helping other singles find happiness in love.0:00 Intro of Xiaoli Mei and Matchmaker May2:06 Being a people person and people oriented2:46 Clients seeking unnatural match7:50 How should second date be different from first date? 9:30 Dancing date is not a good date10:50 Sit side by side to get a man to open up on a date11:26 When should you invite someone to your house? 13:30 Before you get physical, you should have a talk first 13: 50 How to meet up with people organically at ages 30,40s, 50s16: 00 Introverted people need to do this space 17: 34 Xiaoli’s method of dating before landing her husband18: 42 You can't be a lazy dater 21:00 Build your skills and dating 21:44 Your mentality should be in a curious mindset on adate26:25 When should he ask for date #2? 27:00 Should you give him a chance after a neutral firstdate? 32:39 Swipe for 11 hours before you get 1 date 33:00 When to say NO to a guy for a 2nd date? 33:59 Butterfly feeling is fake; Real life is not a Disneymovie 35:00 Business skill set is not the same as dating skill set;It won't work*AMAZON BESTSELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWBCall May forhelp: (310) 867-0851Join The BestAsian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: [email protected]: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friendscan set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money?  They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker andDating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors otherAsian matchmakers to excel in the industry.