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EPISODE · Feb 8, 2026 · 46 MIN

Dating, Choosing the One & Building a Life Together (With My Husband Tom)

from Selfdom · host Dominique Elissa

In today’s episode, I’m joined by my husband Tom for a conversation you’ve been asking for - dating, love, and choosing the right partner. After one of our most replayed episodes ever, we’re back answering your questions. We talk about how to know when someone is “the one,” what really matters when choosing a partner, navigating dating anxiety, being single in your 30s, and how to tell the difference between a rough patch and misalignment. We also dive into managing tired and grumpy days, setting healthy boundaries and what it takes to build a relationship that actually adds happiness to your life. This episode is honest, grounded, and full of real-life perspective, whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or somewhere in between. This episode of Selfdom is brought to you by Bumble https://bumble.com Where Women Make the First Move  Connect with us:  Follow Selfdom on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/selfdom__ Follow Dom Elissa on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dominiquelissa Follow Tom Bull on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tombull Shop Selfdom:  Gratitude journals + more: https://selfdom.au For partnership inquiries: [email protected] Produced by Talkback Media: [email protected]

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