Dating Intentionally

Dating is still one of the greatest mysteries in the world some might say. And with over 1,500 dating apps out there it’s only getting more confusing on how to “figure it out” and find someone who is compatible. In today’s episode, host Calan Breckon unpacks some of the mysteries around dating intentionally with guest Michael Kaye. Michael is the Head of Global Communications at OkCupid, one of the world's largest dating apps, where he leads public relations programming, influencer marketing, and social media. Michael has been a leading voice in dating and relationships and has been featured in many news outlets such as ABC News, Cosmopolitan, The New York Times, and The Washington Post as well as many others. Together they unpack questions like… Where do you think we’re going wrong with dating on all these different apps these days? What do you think the difference is between just dating and dating intentionally? How can someone be more intentional when they’re looking to seriously date? ...as well as some insider information from behind the curtain of what those dating apps know about us as daters, and you may be surprised to find that it’s not what you’d think! Be sure to listen to the full episode as there is a surprise waiting at the end for those who make it there. Michael on IG: @michaelkayepr Twitter: @MichaelKayePR Today's episode is sponsored by The Silva Ultramind System Take the Attachment Style Quiz! Watch this ep on YouTube - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Take our "Building Better Relationships" course Take our "Healing Your Shame" course Coaching Collection Instagram Patreon Chapters (00:00:00) - Sponsor: Silva Ultramind System(00:00:47) - Introducing Michael K and OkCupid(00:03:00) - Where Dating Apps Go Wrong(00:03:42) - Dating as a Part-Time Job(00:09:17) - Gay Dating Culture and Historical Barriers(00:11:21) - Generational Shifts Toward Intentional Dating(00:12:34) - Defining Dating Intentionally(00:15:08) - Marriage Equality's Psychological Impact(00:16:52) - Steps to Date Intentionally and Authentically(00:18:35) - Mental Health, Vulnerability, and Dating Stats(00:21:29) - Emotional Connection, Sapiosexuality, and Safety(00:23:13) - Post-Pandemic Shifts in Dating Priorities(00:24:35) - Psychological Safety in Relationships(00:25:46) - Stats on Icebreakers and First Messages(00:28:03) - Crafting an Effective Dating Profile(00:32:39) - Photo Variety and Authenticity Tips(00:34:50) - Valentine's Day and Algorithm Hacks(00:38:19) - Mindset and Pacing While Dating(00:41:52) - Michael's Own Dating Success Story(00:44:23) - Where to Find OkCupid and Closing Offer(00:45:51) - Outro and Sign-Off