Dating Outside my Race as A Nigerian Woman - Ep 29

Text us and share your adulting stories!Submit your adulthood dilemmas to get them answered on the podcast. https://forms.gle/q5VA4y1xfBLz1tyQ8Dating Outside my Race as A Nigerian WomanAm I wrong for wanting black children? As a Nigerian-American woman, I'm getting into a conversation I've never said out loud before — dating outside my race, what it could mean for my future kids, and whether I'm ready to let go of passing down my culture and skin tone. No judgment either way — I just think we owe it to our future kids to actually think this stuff through.🔔 Rate us 5 stars where If you like video. WATCH on YouTube: You can https://youtu.be/wxi4yJrAN4E ____________________________Chapters 00:00 Intro - Am I Wrong for Wanting Black Children?03:51 A Few Disclaimers Before We Get Into It05:08 If I Had Kids With Someone White (Genetics & Phenotype)06:10 Coming to Terms With a Lighter-Skinned Child07:36 Would I Be Sad? Working Through It Out Loud08:12 My Grandchildren Being "Just a Distant Memory"09:09 Is Wanting This Just Biology?12:42 Clarifying: Race vs. Culture14:23 Why Black Women Struggle to Find Black Love15:03 The "Competition" Theory & Is This Women's Burden to Carry?18:00 Producer's Joke19:30 Applications for Husbands (lol)19:40 Final Thoughts ______________Let's Be Friends!Instagram➟ https://www.instagram.com/chiziduruhttps://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpodTiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduruPinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=enThe DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/Business Inquiries? Music Submissions? [email protected] (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY)#IGuessImAnAdultNow #Chiziduru #interracialdating #NigerianAmerican  #blackwomendating #blacklove #colorism #culturalidentity #familyplanning #Igboculture #africanamericanculture #marriageproposal #marriage #mixedchildren #redflags Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time.Watch Video Podcasts YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuruFollow 'Chizi Duru'Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/