Dating Radar: High Conflict Types You Might Want to Avoid

There are people you shouldn’t marry, have children with, or have a financial entanglement – people with high conflict personalities. They blame, gaslight, lie, deny, make false allegations, and some will seek to destroy you or your reputation.These are relationship destroyers – the people who can ruin your life and make you wish you’d never had children with them.So why do we get involved with them? Why does the brain say ‘yes’ to people who will make your life a living hell? It’s because we don’t have good dating radar and we don’t think we are so stupid that we’d fall into such a horrible relationship.Megan and Bill discuss the five high conflict personality types and how they behave in romantic relationships, including:Borderline HCPsNarcissistic HCPsAntisocial (sociopath) HCPsHistrionic HCPsParanoid HCPsCaveat: Not everyone with these personality disorders has a high conflict personality, but some do. How can you tell? They are the blamers, and they’re no fun in relationships. Listen in as Megan and Bill start this four-part series on Dating Radar.Links & Other NotesBOOKSDating Radar (paperback, audio, e-book)DATING RADAR TEST & SURVEY RESULTSARTICLESDating DenialDating Radar: Your X-Ray Vision In A New RelationshipSubmit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (02:06) - Dating Radar (05:31) - What Is an HCP? (07:16) - Narcissistic Personalities (09:32) - Borderline Personalities (14:37) - Histrionic Personalities (17:06) - Paranoid Personalities (18:30) - Antisocial Personalities (21:23) - Overlap (23:35) - The Survey (33:43) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: How HCPs Jam Your Radar