Dating Younger, Living Boldly, and Rewriting the Rules with Asha Elias. Ep. 180

Welcome back for Part Two! If you tuned in last time, you already know that the writer, mother, and “reluctant” socialite, Asha Elias, has a knack for keeping it real while keeping us entertained. As a contributing writer for Cosmopolitan Magazine and a regular columnist for the Miami New Times, Asha brings sharp insights, wit, and an unfiltered perspective to every conversation.Last week, we got into age gaps in relationships, the delicate balance of being a public figure with a private life, and what it really takes to go after what you want. But we were just getting started.In this episode were diving even deeper–into love, societal norms of dating (or lack thereof), social anxiety, and more. From marrying well and divorcing well to embracing the freedom of rewriting your own timeline, this conversation is all about shaking off the expectations and doing life your way. Tune in!BTW. Are you looking for deeper connection? You know what I say. “Come sit with us.” But for real. Join my EXCLUSIVE online women’s community for Becoming: HER today.Xoxo,Nikki SpoIn this episode…Romance First, Kids LaterAge UnknownMarried Well, Divorced WellLet Youth ShineAge ShameNo Reason, No ArrivalQuotes“I didn’t realize that that silly 25 year old was power, I thought it was weakness and so I tried really hard to change it.” - Asha Elias“Women making you feel invisible because you're younger, is really their own feelings of invisibility. Because you know what society does to older women: we make them invisible.” - Nikki Spo“Now I’m living authentically, the way that I want to.” - Asha EliasTimestamps:0:00 - 0:12 | “Young Guys are Where It's at Right Now”0:12 - 0:32 | Message from SANA SKIN STUDIO0:32 - 1:04 | Intro1:04 - 3:00 | Key Differences Between Younger Men and Older Men3:00 - 5:00 | Dating Without the Kids5:00 - 6:30 | “I Can’t Tell How Old Anyone is These Days”6:30 - 7:20 | “Were Still Flinging”7:20 - 8:55 | Married Well, Divorced Well8:55 - 10:50 | Letting Go of Youth Too Fast10:50 - 11:48 | Leveling Down (Age-Wise) in the Best Way: Living Authentically11:48 - 12:43 | Message from SANA SKIN STUDIO12:43 - 13:08 | Becoming: HER Exclusive Online Community 13:08 - 15:29 | Not Dimming Creativity15:29 - 17:55 | Age Shaming17:55 - 20:50 | Women Are Competitive/Ageism Amongst Women20:50 - 24:51 | Being a Reluctant Socialite= Laziness + Social Anxiety24:51 - 26:23 | No Reason, No Arrival26:23 - 26:42 | Message from SANA SKIN STUDIO26:42 - 27:39 | Outro  —SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW.Join Becoming Herhttps://www.skool.com/nikki-spoelstra-1185/aboutConnect with Asha [email protected] with Nikkiwww.nikkispo.com@nikkisappso / @wearebecoming_herSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.