Day 130 - We Eat Our Own Filet Mignon

Episode Theme: Why language shapes product culture—and why pride beats obligation. Key Topics: A Valentine’s dinner that sparked a realization The meaning behind “eat your own dog food” Why metaphors shape how people feel about their work Dog food as a symbol of duty and suffering Food as a symbol of craft and enjoyment Building products you actually want to use Pride versus tolerance in product quality How language influences morale and identity Reframing internal culture through better metaphors “Eating what we build” as an act of confidence Notable Takeaways: The phrase may be right, but the picture is wrong. Words shape mood, and mood shapes behavior. Teams should enjoy what they build, not just endure it. Pride creates higher standards than obligation. Product quality should be felt internally first. Suggested Reflections: What language do you use to describe your work? Does it inspire pride—or just compliance? Would you enjoy using what you’re building? What metaphor would better represent your craft? Memorable Line (Paraphrase): “We’re not here to eat dog food — we’re here to enjoy what we build.”