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There’s So Many Layers To This But To Be Clear, I Am Particularly Speaking Post Trauma, Post Healing / Pre Trauma/Healing Because It Takes Looking At Yourself, Being Honest About Your Experiences And Being Willing To Start Again From The Ground Up. (When You Are In The Midst Of Traumatic Experience(s) Or Acknowledging Such Things, You Need To Give Yourself Permission To Do Whatever Works Without avoiding Yourself)Either Way The Message Is About Recognising Negative Patterns. Post Trauma/Healing, If You Choose To Maintain A Negative Narrative You Will Make Yourself Physically And Mentally Sick. Negativity Shuts The Mind And Body Down Which Is Why It’s Important To Remember Your Thoughts Matter. Loving Yourself Matters But If You Continuously Choose To Be Harmful To Yourself & Expect Others To Hold Your Hand, You Are Not Only Being Unfair But You Are Dragging People Down With You. (If You Are Fortunate, People Will Hold Your Hand Regardless, Which Can Be Healthy Or Unhealthy)Misery Loves Company Is Said For A Reason And If You Aren’t Careful, You Could Find Yourself Around Individuals Who See You Down And Are Happy You Are There, It Makes Them Feel Better For Not Doing The Work Themselves. Loving Yourself Takes Practice And With Practice It Becomes Habit.What Excuse Do You Have To Ignore All That You Have And All That You Are, To Choose To Be Ungreatful And Intentionally Unkind?How Does That Serve you?Grow And Do Better.Grow And Be Better. Focus On Abundance🦋You Never Deserve Bad Things That Happen To You, Especially By People You Trust / Consider Family But You Must Never Allow Other People’s Sickness, To Keep You Down.You Are MIGHTY 🐛🦋You Are WORTHY ⭐️You Are DESERVING 🌹You Are POWERFUL 🌙✨You Are LOVE 💚And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe