Day 294: Approaching with a WINGMAN (Is it Cheating?)

Why playing on nightmare mode is retarded, & why taking a mate out with you to talk to girls can make all this a LOT easier (and a lot more FUN). Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching & a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Topics covered: About 40 or so percent of my approaches were with a friend, just walking around talking to girls casually if we saw anyone we liked People worry about it being a crutch When you build an awesome sex life, or find a kickass girlfriend, do you really think you'll give a shit that you had to use some "crutches"? I care about RESULTS, about you becoming the person you want to be. I don't give a shit how you get there (as long as you're not hurting anyone or hurting yourself, obviously) Stop obsessing about the METHOD, & start obsessing about the GOAL or the END RESULT Approaching with a friend or wingman makes this stuff 100 times easier. It's more social - you feel a little less weird being by yourself walking around You can push each other, especially if one of you is lacking motivation. You can tell your friend beforehand what you need from him - eg I'd often say "Today can you make me talk to 5 girls" & my mates would make me do it. When you're feeling the anxiety, the nervousness, you have your mate there to make you do it & talk you into it. Fun things to do: 10 min stopwatch, both gotta talk to a girl each Can't talk til both talk to a girl Both walk around,just have a chill day talking to each other, occasionally talk to girls Take turns talking to girls - you talk to one, then your mate, then you again, then your mate, etc Go out with a group of guys, & just go off talking to girls individually You can also talk to girls TOGETHER (as in, 2 of you talk to a pair of girls). You can point out girls you know the other person will like (over time you'll learn each other's "type") You can then hit on EACH OTHER's type (you hit on his type of girl, he hits on yours). That makes you a lot more open minded, hitting on girls you wouldn't normally talk to. You can try each other's styles - it's likely you'll both have different styles of talking to girls, you'll probably say different things, etc. Do each other's styles. One of my mates always walked up & just said "Hey, you single?" So I did that for a while. I liked to walk up to girls & say "Hey!" with a HUGE smile on my face, & just grin at them for like 10 seconds until they started grinning back, then I'd say "What are you smiling at? Why are you so happy?" & they'd laugh. My mate did that for a while to try it. Give each other challenges, like silly things to say to girls, etc. Yes to some extent you want to remember that you're HITTING ON GIRLS not just saying silly things to make them laugh - but you can do BOTH. A bit of humour thrown in there makes this fun, it makes girls laugh, & reminds you this is all meant to be fun. Just make sure you still ask for phone numbers & tell the girl she's cute/hot/attractive/sexy/pretty whatever you want to say. Make it clear you're HITTING ON HER, not just making her laugh. 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching $200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call ▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬ 😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com ▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬ ▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere 📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter