DDR 046 - New Years Goals Instead of Resolutions

In this engaging conversation, Rick Hanson, Kelley Lovelace, and Ashley Kurtenbach reflect on their holiday experiences and delve into the topic of New Year's resolutions. They discuss the difference between setting goals and making resolutions, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and consistency over time. The conversation touches on navigating life's challenges, embracing new beginnings, and finding joy in connections and experiences, particularly through travel. They also explore the impact of loss and the significance of maintaining a positive outlook in the face of adversity. Rick, Ashley, and Kelley explore the significance of relationships, the importance of slowing down to appreciate life, and the balance between personal goals and meaningful connections. They discuss the busy trap that many fall into, the need for growth, and the value of responding thoughtfully in conversations. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of being present, defining success on personal terms, and the role of tact in communication. Rick and Kelley discuss the dynamics of conflict in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding different processing styles. They explore personal growth through setting goals and resolutions, highlighting the concept of servant leadership and the impact of elevating others. The discussion culminates in the significance of meaningful conversations that inspire and connect individuals, reinforcing the idea that personal development is a collective journey. Please rate and review this podcast wherever fine podcasts are downloaded.  The Don't Die Rusty Podcast is recorded with Riverside.fm. Riverside is leading the charge in technology and convenience in terms of remote podcasting. You can help support the Don't Die Rusty Podcast by Clicking Here to sign up. Takeaways New Year's resolutions can often feel overwhelming and unrealistic. Setting smaller, consistent goals can lead to better outcomes. Personal growth should be a continuous journey, not limited to a calendar year. Life's challenges can help us grow and develop resilience. Embracing new beginnings can open up opportunities for growth. Finding light in dark times is essential for mental well-being. Traveling and connecting with others can bring joy and fulfillment. It's important to focus on the positive aspects of life. Setting boundaries can help prioritize personal happiness. Being the best version of ourselves is a lifelong commitment. Influencing others positively is a key goal. Slowing down allows for better awareness of life. Success should not come at the expense of relationships. Finding balance between who we are and who we want to be is essential. Growth is necessary; stagnation leads to decline. Busy-ness can be a mask for self-importance. Investing in relationships requires time and effort. Honoring others in communication reflects our character. Confidence is quiet; arrogance is loud. Responding thoughtfully can prevent unnecessary conflict. Conflict resolution is essential for maintaining relationships. Loyalty is demonstrated through willingness to address conflicts. Understanding processing styles can improve communication. Stacking small grievances can lead to resentment. Setting personal goals is a pathway to growth. Servant leadership focuses on elevating others. Effective communication prevents misunderstandings. Building relationships requires intentional effort. Meaningful conversations can inspire change. Personal development is a shared journey. You can find Don't Die Rusty on all Social Media platforms: Instagram: @dontdierusty  Facebook: Don't Die Rusty TikTok: Don't Die Rusty You can find The Rick's at: Rick Hanson Instagram: @rickhanson24 Facebook: Rick Hanson Ricky Brule Instagram: @ricky.wayne80 Facebook: Ricky W Brule