Dealing with Naysayers | You Shouldn't Homeschool!

As homeschooling parents, we have to overcome many obstacles and hurdles, to provide out children with the education and lifestyle we want for them. When you first begin, one of the biggest barriers to home education, is dealing with naysayers. In those beginning months and years of home education, many of us are fragile. The slightest bump in the road can shatter our confidence and leave us questioning our decision to homeschool. And so, when people around us find fault in our homeschooling, it can send us into a negative spiral, of self-doubt and shame. This Blog-post may contain affiliate links. Please see Disclaimer for more information. So what do you do when someone tells you that you shouldn't homeschool your children? In episode 34 of the Raising Mums podcast, I discuss how to deal with naysayers, in a way that will leave you feeling empowered, rather than ashamed. WATCH THIS VIDEO! https://youtu.be/s8MZIq3BGYs The key to dealing with naysayers is to identify if they are truly coming from a place of concern, or simply feeding their own ego. In both situations, put yourself into their position and respond with love and compassion. This doesn't mean that you can't stand up for yourself. If you are being mistreated, you must! But do it with compassion, and you will leave the situation feeling more empowered, and confident in your decision to home educate your kids. Related: Homeschooling | When you don't have enough time! Our Lovely Sponsor This episode of Raising Mums was brought to you by Miraj Stories! You can save 30% off on this Islamic app for children aged 4-9. It includes Islamic audiobooks, picture books, songbooks and games. It’s Halal and there are NO ADs! Alhumdulillah! Miraj Stories is such an EASY way to incorporate Islamic learning into your child’s homeschooling!  They are currently offering a 7 day FREE TRIAL, so give it a go! CLICK HERE to GET 30% OFF Miraj Stories! www.mirajstories.com/subscribe_ourmuslimhomeschool/ I'll be back again for another episode of Raising Mums, on Sunday 21st February 2021 at 4pm GMT, LIVE on Facebook and Instagram, insha'Allah. This time, I'll be discussing, How to Educate Children Under 5 at Home! See you then! 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