Dear Black Men: Episode 4 "All Gloves Are Off"

On this episode of DEAR BLACK MEN , the hosts discuss the topic of being 'for the streets' and what leads men to that mindset. They explore the idea that men may turn to the streets when they feel unappreciated or when they believe that doing the right thing doesn't yield the desired results. They also touch on the idea of experiencing the streets as a form of learning and self-discovery. The hosts share their personal experiences and perspectives on the topic. The conversation explores the idea of men transitioning from being players to wanting a committed relationship. The hosts discuss whether men expect instant gratification when they decide to be good partners. They also touch on the benefits and drawbacks of being in the streets and the importance of finding the right woman. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they debate the attractiveness of dark-skinned men and the significance of a woman's relationship with God. The hosts also discuss the importance of communication, stability, and ambition in a potential partner. The third theme of the conversation is about having fun in a relationship. The participants discuss the importance of being with someone who is fun and can make them laugh. They emphasize that fun should be natural and not forced. They also share personal experiences of ending relationships or losing interest in someone because they didn't find the same things funny. The conversation then transitions to discussing the use of Instagram's Close Friends feature. They debate whether it's appropriate for someone in a relationship to have close friends and whether adding someone to the close friends list indicates attraction or trust. In this final part of the conversation, the hosts discuss the topic of going through a partner's phone. They share personal experiences and opinions on the matter, with Troy admitting to going through a girl's phone once and regretting it. They also express their appreciation for their listeners and announce the IG of the Week and Song of the Week.