EPISODE · May 18, 2026 · 20 MIN
Debrief | Jealousy, Projection, & Grief in Remy’s Story
from Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse · host Abuse Survivor Network
In this debrief episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon breaks down the patterns in Remy’s story, including jealousy, projection, betrayal, and the complicated grief that can happen after an abuser dies. Remy’s abuser repeatedly accused her of the very things he was doing himself. His jealousy kept her defending her normal behavior, questioning her reality, and trying to gather enough proof to trust what she already knew. Brandon also explores how fear, obligation, guilt, and shame worked together in Remy’s story, from the fear of his reactions to the obligation to be fair, the guilt of leaving, and the shame that came from questioning her own judgment. Click if you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please send us an email at [email protected] Click on the title to read about Coercive Control as Care: Signs & Patterns Sign up to our Domestic Violence Newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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In this debrief episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon breaks down the patterns in Remy’s story, including jealousy, projection, betrayal, and the complicated grief that can happen after an abuser dies. Remy’s abuser repeatedly accused her of the very things he was doing himself. His jealousy kept her defending her normal behavior, questioning her reality, and trying to gather enough proof to trust what she already knew. Brandon also explores how fear, obligation, guilt, and shame worked together in Remy’s story, from the fear of his reactions to the obligation to be fair, the guilt of leaving, and the shame that came from questioning her own judgment.
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