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EPISODE · Jan 21, 2026 · 16 MIN

debunking the illusion of softness to truly create peace, and how to tell if you’re teetering on avoidance

from The Glow Code · host Kate Dove

You know that feeling; When you’re home alone, your favorite Netflix show is on in the background, you’ve just saged your house, and are about to indulge in a sweet treat. Everything is calm, and peaceful, until you pick up your phone.Or, someone comes over and brings a stressful story.Or, you realize your smoke alarm is about to go off from the delectable, chocolate chip cookies you’re over-baking, and you’re scrambling to open the windows.The illusion of wanting a soft life is believing it means not participating in the natural dance of life, and feeling a sense of defeat. Like your reality is perfect until the outside world storms through and rains on your parade. In this episode, we debunk the illusion of a soft life, and what true softness feels like both in your mind and body. We discuss how to check yourself to see if you are acting from fear or avoidance, rather than pursuing a soft life from a place of recognizing your own inner power to hold more with ease. Enjoy!Subscribe on Substack:Connect with me on socials: https://linktr.ee/katiethecreatressRead the “Threads” spicy romantasy seriesFeminine Energy playlist on Youtube This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit bykatedove.substack.com

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