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Sep 15, 2026 9 min

Decentering men

from The Softly Unmasking podcast Hosted by Tuyala

What happens when you stop making men the centre of your life? In this episode, I talk about what it meant to spend years auditioning for men, worrying about whether they liked me, changing myself to be chosen, and putting my own life on hold for the possibility of love. Decentering men isn't about rejecting relationships or wanting men less. It's about coming back to yourself, asking what you actually want, and building a life that doesn't have to wait for someone else to arrive. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm.

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