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EPISODE · May 10, 2026 · 34 MIN

Decentering men without hating men

from Where You're Planted · host Deborah Ajayi

Hi y'all! Welcome back to the podcast.In today’s episode, we chat about what it actually means to decenter men. How to recognize the ways you might be centering them without realizing it. And how to do the work of reorienting your life around yourself—your own desires, your own values, your own sense of self—without turning it into a war against men.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.Where You're Planted Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: @debbseditPersonal Instagram: @__debbajayiYoutube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: https://deborahajayi.substack.com/

Hi y'all! Welcome back to the podcast.In today’s episode, we chat about what it actually means to decenter men. How to recognize the ways you might be centering them without realizing it. And how to do the work of reorienting your life around yourself—your own desires, your own values, your own sense of self—without turning it into a war against men.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.Where You're Planted Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: @debbseditPersonal Instagram: @__debbajayiYoutube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: https://deborahajayi.substack.com/

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