EPISODE · Jun 25, 2024 · 59 MIN
Deep Casual Intimacy: Scott’s Update
from Sex Stories: Real People Talking About Sex, Love & Relationships
Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia. 00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs. 📈 STATS | 36 bisexual cis dude, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, Gentleman Dom, works in emergency medicine overseas, Pacific Northwest-based Scott's episode from March 2022 | Disaster Zone Dominant 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia. 00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs. 📈 STATS | 36 bisexual cis dude, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, Gentleman Dom, works in emergency medicine overseas, Pacific Northwest-based Scott's episode from March 2022 | Disaster Zone Dominant 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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