Demanding Vertical Gifts from Horizontal People

Have you ever had a relationship that felt constantly strained, no matter how hard you tried to make it work? Maybe it’s a spouse who never seems to say the right thing, a friend who always lets you down, or a parent whose approval you’re still chasing.It is so easy to blame them. We think, "If they would just change, I’d finally be happy." But what if the real issue isn't that they don’t love you? What if the problem is that you’ve placed a burden on their shoulders that they were never, ever designed to carry? What if you are asking them to give you something only God can give? Today, we’re looking at a raw, high-friction moment in an ancient marriage. In their conflict, we'll see a mirror for our own relationships and learn how to stop crushing the people we love under the weight of our expectations.