Desi Trauma, People-Pleasing & Escapist Marriages | Red Flags, Abuse & Healing with Marhama Shams

🎙 Superhuman Podcast | Episode with Marhama Shams🧠 Clinical Psychologist & Addiction SpecialistIn this powerful episode, we sit down with Marhama Shams to explore the deep-rooted emotional and psychological patterns found in Desi households — from the pressure to please everyone to escaping trauma through marriage.Together, we unpack:👉 Why Desi kids become people-pleasers and struggle with boundaries👉 How trauma is unknowingly passed down through generations👉 The harsh reality of using marriage to run from pain👉 The silence around male sexual abuse survivors👉 How media romanticizes red flags and toxic love — especially in Pakistani dramas & Netflix shows👉 What real healing looks likeWhether you're healing from family trauma, questioning cultural norms, or simply want to understand the invisible patterns shaping Desi mental health — this episode is for you.