Direction, Week 3 - Day 4: Love with an Agenda

Direction, Week 3 Day 4: Love with an Agenda Devotional In our culture, having an “agenda” in relationships sounds manipulative or selfish. But biblical love actually does have an agenda—and it’s the most loving agenda possible. Real love desires the absolute best for others, which means wanting them to know Jesus and grow in their faith. This agenda isn’t about using people or being fake in relationships. It’s about caring so deeply for others that we want them to experience the life-changing relationship with Jesus that we’ve found. When we truly love someone, we can’t be content with just their temporary happiness—we want their eternal joy. This love with an agenda should permeate all our relationships. In marriage, we’re not just trying to make our spouse happy; we’re helping them become more like Jesus. In parenting, we’re not just raising good kids; we’re raising disciples. In friendships, we’re not just having fun together; we’re encouraging spiritual growth. The beautiful thing about this agenda is that it actually makes our relationships richer and more meaningful. When we’re invested in each other’s spiritual growth, we develop deeper connections and experience the joy of seeing God work in the lives of people we love. Bible Verse “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” — John 13:35 (ESV) Reflection Question How can you demonstrate Christ-like love with a spiritual agenda in one specific relationship this week? Quote “Real love has an agenda of bringing people to faith in Jesus Christ, teaching them to observe all that he has commanded. Or it isn’t love.” Prayer Lord, help me love others with Your agenda—desiring their spiritual growth above all else. Give me wisdom to encourage their faith journey.