Divorce In Midlife | Facing Your Fear And Putting Your Future First | Lindsay De Swart

Last year my friend Lindsay de Swart and I sat down for a Fireside Chat episode where we took a look forward into where we might be in a year. Lindsay never would have realistically guessed what her year might look like. She took a deep dive into  her life, her marriage, and everything that was affected by those and turned her world upside down.When her family's future was at a fork in the road, she chose to take the road less traveled, but the one she knew she HAD to take.  She knew she needed to face her fear and set new boundaries while utilizing self-care to get her through it.I know that we will all be touched in some way by her story. Facing fear. Having to put ourselves first sometimes. Having to upset the apple cart of others and the guilt over that. Knowing and accepting that change needs to happen. Admitting that things aren't perfect and owning that.  Beating back all the judgement and guilt  from herself and others and then and relying outside help to get her through when she couldnl't do it herself.I think when we face all of these things, we find out who we truly are and what we are truly capable of. My friend Lindsay is one of the strongest women that I know. I guarantee all of you are the second strongest women that I know. As  Glennon Doyle says, We Can Do Hard Things, especially when we know that we will be lost if we don’t.If you find also find yourself in a place where big change needs to happen before you are lost, know that change and making big pivots takes time and sacrifice. But it’s important to make that investment. I may not know you personally, but I know you. You are worth it and you deserve it. Thanks for listening today. If you have enjoyed today’s episode – make sure to share it with a friend and FOLLOW the show on Apple podcasts or wherever you listening so that future episodes will show up in your podcast library.And go to the show page and make sure to RATE and REVIEW this episode! Find Lindsay on her show MAGICAL MIDLIFE and send her some love as well. I know she would LOVE to hear from you. AND she has a private Facebook group where she is leading women in meditation and holding wonderful conversation. So find her there as well.You can also find Lindsay at her website: https://soulfuladventureliving.com/Find me on my Website:https://www.lesleylmcshane.comQuestions? Email me:  [email protected] Guide: 4 Steps To Prioritize Your Health & Wellness This Week (And Actually Do It!) Connect with me on Instagram:Get the Redesigning Midlife UpdatesFind your community at the private Redesigning Midlife Facebook Group Get your MENO WELL bars (formerly Bossa Bars) - Use LESLEY10 for 10% off your first orderCheck out Kion and get the Redesigning Midlife Discount - 20% off subscriptions and 10% off individual orders.Need a good, reliable, clean, and professional Plumber? Call 1-Tom-Plumber - The Name Is The Phone Number