EPISODE · Mar 25, 2026 · 58 MIN
Divorce, Mediation Versus Litigation with Joe Dillon
from Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success
Divorce Mediation vs. Attorneys: Joe Dillon on Saving Time, Money & Stress in “Silver Divorce”Sometimes we just can't get along and stay together. So, in this @SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, Dian interviews divorce mediator Joe Dillon of Equitable Mediation. Joe shares how witnessing his parents’ litigated divorce in the 1980s shaped his mission to help families avoid years of conflict, high costs and emotional fallout. Joe explains the key differences between attorney-driven divorce -- where two advocates fight a zero-sum battle -- and mediation, where a neutral mediator helps both spouses develop solutions through full disclosure, option testing, and financial modeling. He discusses why some people resist mediation, including power imbalances, non-disclosure, substance abuse, and high-conflict dynamics, and notes men often initiate mediation more frequently. The conversation also covers “silver divorce,” why longer-term marriages tend to mediate more successfully, the five divorce options, how agreements are drafted and filed, mediation’s unregulated nature, and practical communication tactics for diffusing conflict.Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on Instagram Facebook and @DianGriesel X Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/ SHOW RUN: 00:00 Divorce Questions Intro00:25 Meet Mediator Joe01:42 Childhood Divorce Impact04:17 Mediation Versus Lawyers06:23 Why Mediation Fails09:07 Disclosure And Red Flags11:14 Who Chooses Mediation14:49 Reluctant Spouse Dynamics16:07 Negotiation Jujitsu19:16 Who Mediates By Age22:14 Wedding Hype Reality24:47 Internet And Divorce27:23 Five Divorce Options30:11 Choosing Divorce Options30:56 When Mediation Fails32:10 Becoming a Mediator36:05 Mediation Rules and Risks37:41 Cross State and Global Cases40:26 From Agreement to Filing43:27 Divorce Coach Partnership44:41 Communication and Asking Help48:22 Defusing High Conflict Rooms52:27 Marriage Skills and Wrap Up
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Divorce Mediation vs. Attorneys: Joe Dillon on Saving Time, Money & Stress in “Silver Divorce”Sometimes we just can't get along and stay together. So, in this @SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, Dian interviews divorce mediator Joe Dillon of Equitable Mediation. Joe shares how witnessing his parents’ litigated divorce in the 1980s shaped his mission to help families avoid years of conflict, high costs and emotional fallout. Joe explains the key differences between attorney-driven divorce -- where two advocates fight a zero-sum battle -- and mediation, where a neutral mediator helps both spouses develop solutions through full disclosure, option testing, and financial modeling. He discusses why some people resist mediation, including power imbalances, non-disclosure, substance abuse, and high-conflict dynamics, and notes men often initiate mediation more frequently. The conversation also covers “silver divorce,” why longer-term marriages tend to mediate more successfully, the five divorce options, how agreements are drafted and filed, mediation’s unregulated nature, and practical communication tactics for diffusing conflict.Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on Instagram Facebook and @DianGriesel X Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/ SHOW RUN: 00:00 Divorce Questions Intro00:25 Meet Mediator Joe01:42 Childhood Divorce Impact04:17 Mediation Versus Lawyers06:23 Why Mediation Fails09:07 Disclosure And Red Flags11:14 Who Chooses Mediation14:49 Reluctant Spouse Dynamics16:07 Negotiation Jujitsu19:16 Who Mediates By Age22:14 Wedding Hype Reality24:47 Internet And Divorce27:23 Five Divorce Options30:11 Choosing Divorce Options30:56 When Mediation Fails32:10 Becoming a Mediator36:05 Mediation Rules and Risks37:41 Cross State and Global Cases40:26 From Agreement to Filing43:27 Divorce Coach Partnership44:41 Communication and Asking Help48:22 Defusing High Conflict Rooms52:27 Marriage Skills and Wrap Up
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