Divorced Parenting: To Hurt or to be Vulnerable (Express preference)

During and after divorces, secure parents don’t take anything personally.  Kids are allowed to express their preferences.  Parents validate feelings, encourage expressions, and provide a two-step process to help kids navigate the difficult changes.  What is your motivation? Are you trying to hurt or are you trying to be vulnerable? Or in other words, are you trying to hurt or are you trying to express your preference? See Dr. Dan’s new book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1935576062/?tag=medrounpublic-20