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EPISODE · Mar 13, 2024 · 24 MIN

Do Time-outs Work??

from How Not to Screw Up Your Kids

When our child is throwing the mother of all tantrums what do we do? My advice has always been not to use ‘the naughty step’ for the simple reason that it takes a child who is experiencing some pretty big, sometimes scary emotions and isolates them. However, a 'time-out' can be used effectively when the timing is right. Let me explain... Here are the highlights: (01:00) Naughty steps and removal of a child can be negative if used inappropriately (5:10) Understand the driver behind the behaviour (6:49) Add in what your child perceives is lacking (12:11) Work on your own big emotions (15:04) Be super clear about difference between behaviour and character (17:41) In the moment advice and how to use time-outs 💚 Let's grow our village together, please share this episode with at least one friend 💚 Complete the listener poll to let me know what you'd like in future episodes 💚 You can watch the Bucket Emptying Episodes on Youtube 💚 Access the free resources mentioned in the episodes 💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025. DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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