Do You Actually Have a Type...Or Were You Taught One? | Studs, Femmes & Modern Dating

Everybody says they have a type... but is it really about looks? This week, Coach A and Dr. D get into a conversation that starts with attraction and quickly turns into something much deeper.We're talking labels, gender roles, masculinity, femininity, and how much of who we're attracted to is shaped by society versus who we genuinely are. Why do queer women seem to move so fast in relationships? Why do certain identities get stereotyped while others get romanticized? And are we attracted to people—or to what they represent?From the expectations placed on femmes and studs to the difference between authenticity and performance in dating, nothing is off limits. We unpack what "good" queer representation actually looks like, why vulnerability feels so risky, and how the boxes society creates can both help and hurt us.It's thoughtful, it's honest, and yes, it's a little messy.Whether you're questioning labels, navigating queer relationships, or just wondering why people love the way they do, this conversation might have you rethinking a few things.